I’m definitely not the most knowledgeable when it comes to IVF and fertility issues. I don’t know what all the lingo means. I don’t know what my levels were (I didn’t keep track). I barely had an understanding of what my body was going to go through…I just lived through it.
But these are the things that we thought were most important to share…
The first was the cost (this in no way is a pity party or a cry for help, but it is knowledge that we didn’t have to begin with)…Army insurance does not cover IVF. All diagnostic testing is covered and some of the medications. What’s not covered is the aspiration that Hubster had to endure, since there was a blockage from his previous reversal, and the freezing of his sperm; the egg retrieval; the transfer of the embryos; the freezing of any extra embryos; and the actual fertility (FSH) medications. The medications surprised me the most…if we were going through any other fertility procedure (IVF was the only option due to the aspiration – the sperm are not mature enough to fertilize the egg on their own, so they had to have help), all of the medication is covered. It’s.all.the.same.medication! But for whatever reason, they don’t cover it for IVF. In all, we’ve paid about $20,000. We are blessed in the fact that we could afford to do this and pay cash, but in doing it through private pay, there’s no program for a guarantee for success. There are financing programs available, and they offer multiple time options, and some allow you to try until there is success. We chose to not go into any more debt…but that’s just us. We had full confidence and faith that we would only have to do this once.
The amount of doctor’s appointments was staggering! At one point, I drove 8 days straight down to Nashville, just to have my blood drawn and an ultrasound. I understand that people make this drive every day for work…and I used to commute that long as well…but at least for work I would have been there for hours and not 15 minutes! My body did not appreciate having to give blood that much either. I’ve completely lost track of how many times I had to have blood drawn. And for my body, this is not an easy process as my veins are small and they tend to roll, which causes the need for “fishing”. The one thing I can say about the woman who had to stick me so many times – she’s AMAZING and NEVER needed to “fish”!
But we can thankfully and blessedly say that this was amazingly successful for us!!! We only had 3 embryos to transfer (none to freeze), and ALL of them “stuck”!!! We are going to be parents of TRIPLETS!!!!!!!! (I have to keep saying this so that my brain understands what’s really happening!!!)